
The Singles group at Hope Bible Church met Tuesday night and compiled this quick study on the Model of Genuine Friendship patterned after the relationship between David and Jonathan. Before poring over the relevant texts in 1 Samuel and 2 Samuel — a number of cultural obstacles to intimate friendships were identified:
- Everyone is so busy — living in our rat race society; difficult to take the time to build friendships;
– Distance creates a problem — just look around the room and you see those who came from Balt City, from Silver Spring, from White Marsh, etc.
– We live in such an independent society; people don’t admit to their need of support and encouragement from others;
– People are reluctant to be vulnerable and let others get close to them;
– Movement away from the extended family and any sense of community
– There is potential pain involved in investing in a close relationship that might lead to heartache down the road;
David Hoke has an excellent message on Loneliness and Friendship: "Loneliness has to do with the isolation we feel when we have no meaningful relationships with people."



